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January 17, 2011

Find your marketing style: This Wednesday in N.Y.C.

There is a formula for finding steady clients that keep the money streaming in. You just need to learn right the tools and how to use them, in a way that works for you.

Ready to find some steady clients? Banish “feast or famine”?

It takes some strategic thinking and discipline, but you can find the clients who have budgets and ongoing needs for your services.

To find out how, join me — live and in person — in New York for my Freelancers Union seminar, Steady Marketing = Steady Clients.

When: Wednesday, Jan 19, 2011, 6:30 – 8:30PM
Where: Empire Building, Brooklyn
Details and sign up here. (Attendees get $10 off the 2011 Marketing Plan + Calendar with eCalendar).

October 13, 2010

Are You a Great Communicator?

From Marketing Mentor client, Jezra Kaye, who is offering a free session in NYC Thursday, Oct 14, in case you're free.

I’m giving a speech in NYC this Thursday on how to become a great public speaker. (Interested? It’s free; just RSVP igcrsvp@gmail.com with the word KAYE in the subject line.)

So, in preparation, I’ve been pouring through slides and notes and theories and stories about public speaking styles, how adults develop new skills, etc. This is big fun if, like me, you enjoy communications theory. The only problem is, real communications are rarely as neat and tidy as our theories make them sound.

For example: This morning, I received an email from a woman I met at a recent networking event. In it, she said how much she’d enjoyed meeting me, thanked me for offering to introduce her to potential clients, and asked how she could help me promote my own business. The note was lovely (in fact, pitch perfect), and the only problem was that I’d never offered to introduce her to anyone. (I don’t recommend people I haven’t worked with; do you?)

What I’d actually suggested was that, since we seemed to be going after the same clients, we get together for coffee and compare notes. What to do? Here’s how I tried to bring theory and practice together, to decide:

  • I know, from the personality theory I study and teach, that, as a member of the Public Speaking Style I call “Do-Gooders,” I’m inclined to take everything personally (and way too hard!).
  • Knowing this, it was easier to discount my first reaction (that she was playing me for a fool) and my second reaction (to run and hide from a situation that made me uncomfortable).
  • My third reaction was to set the record straight, in the most neutral way possible. So I wrote a note (here comes the practice aspect) that thanked her for being in touch, corrected the misunderstanding, and suggested again that we have coffee.  

I don’t know what will come of this experience, but it was humbling and (eventually) funny. I’ll try to remember, when presenting theory on Thursday, so say “This is how it works — theoretically!”

Jezra Kaye is a speaker coach and speechwriter who helps people build their business or promote their passion through great public speaking skills. Learn more at www.speakupforsuccess.com.

September 22, 2010

LinkedIn wasn't designed for the self-employed, but...

If you're like most creative professionals, you have a LinkedIn profile for yourself and/or your company, but are you "using it" as well as you could?

I think LinkedIn is one of the best social networking tools for business so I recommend spending the bulk of your time there, researching your prospects, reaching out to them and participating in discussions.

But one of the problems with LinkedIn is that it is designed for the job market, not self employed professionals running their own business and looking for clients. That’s why the profile itself resembles a resume.

I’ve come up with a couple of workarounds, which I’ll be teaching in my new Advanced Marketing Group (which starts next Wed. Sept 29.) Here’s one: where it asks for “experience” and “add position” is where you can list some of your best clients, with a short description of what you did for them. To see how I did that on my profile, check it out here.

Any workarounds you've found?

April 14, 2010

Why are they so inspired?

Inspiration comes in many forms – but we feel like some of the best are through learning and networking. That’s why we started the Creative Freelancer Conference.

This week, on Blog Talk Radio, Colleen Rice Nelson interviewed me and two Creative Freelancer Conference veterans. Listen to Alisa Bonsignore and  Dyana Valentine talk about what they learned at past conferences. Alisa shared how CFC helped her to see her business as a business and take it more seriously – and we all tried to describe the amazing networking, support, and camaraderie that sizzle during the conference. Oh yes, and I outlined all the topics that will be covered at this year’s conference. Listen here: www.blogtalkradio.com/freelancer-forum/2010/04/11/creative-freelancer-conference-2010-news-updates

Feel inspired too? Sign up today. The early bird discount expires Thursday, April 15th!

March 23, 2010

Start creating business friendships

My mother once told me, “You've got to be a friend, to make a friend.”

I believe this bit of information is the key to unlocking the floodgates to our creative businesses. It’s all about putting ourselves in the other person’s shoes. If you had a problem, how would you want the person you came to for help to treat you?

The above principle also rings true in meetings, not only with clients, but with other creatives. If you’re going to HOW or CFC for the first time, and you strike up a conversation with someone else who is new to the conference, you both have common ground from which to start a new friendship.

You've got to be a friend, to make a friend. This little insight will work wonders in helping you hurdle you fears about being in a new place and meeting new people. You could talk about how many people are around, how shy you may be, who you’re excited about hearing speak and so on.

I read an awesome tweet the other day that said, “You don’t have enough business because you don't have enough relationships.” So, if you shift the perspective of your encounters with people, you will move forward in your career successfully. Start creating ‘business friendships’ instead of adding more ‘contacts’ and meeting with ‘prospects.’

Intentionally changing the language that you use to describe the folks you work with will change the way you perceive them. You’ve got to change who they are in your head before they become someone different (and better) in your life.

Are you targeting prospects? Or are you developing business friendships?

Special thanks to Clint Walkingstick from Eye Say Design.

February 17, 2010

Attend the Small Business Summit with me?

We’re excited to be partnering again with Ramon Ray and his Fifth Annual Small Business Summit, to be held on March 16, 2010 at Digital Sandbox in NYC. Seth Godin is this year’s headline speaker, and if it’s anything like last year’s event, a fantastic day of sessions and networking can be expected.

Want my extra ticket?

I have an extra ticket for the event, and I’m looking for someone to join me. Send your networking or conference success story to me at ilise@marketing-mentor.com. The best entry wins!

January 11, 2010

Build your Marketing Machine - Brooklyn, Jan 20th

If one of your New Year's resolutions is to grow your business and get new clients, you'll need a strategy and a marketing plan. Join me for this hands-on workshop where you will learn which are the most effective, and least expensive, marketing tools for freelancers and how to fit them into your life. 
 
Wednesday, Jan 20, 2010 6 PM
Freelancers Union, Brooklyn, NY
Build Your Marketing Machine

More info & sign up here: www.freelancersunion.org/events/2010/winter/build-marketing-machine.html

P.S. Attendees get a discounted copy of the 2010 Marketing Plan + Calendar

November 04, 2009

What is it that you do do?

In my latest edition of Biz Bits, I asked the question, "When was the last time someone asked you what you do?" Here's why:

I just returned from a week’s vacation cruise. Every day I met dozens of people from around the world and had to answer this exact question over and over again.

Having a ‘seven word blurb’ is a business necessity. I teach people to craft their statement as part of every consulting relationship I get involved in.  So you would think that when it’s my time to answer the “what do you do?” question, I would have no trouble. Right?

Big trouble.  I found I needed to rethink entirely the way I answer this question.

My practiced answer to the ‘what do you do?’ question is “ I mentor creative agency owners and teach them how to grow their business.” You understand that, right? Of course you do, because if you’re reading this newsletter, you’re most likely a creative agency owner or a creative person in my target market.  Most of the time I answer this question I’m meeting creative people at creative industry events:  not on a cruise ship.

So in the cruise ship dining room one evening when a guy from Sweden asked me “what do you do?” and I gave him my practiced answer, what I got in return was a peculiar look and the honest response, “I have no idea what that means”.

“What is a creative agency?” the Swede asked. “And what’s a mentor?” I found myself trying to explain what I do in a whole new way.  I started stumbling and stuttering (which is so not me).

I knew I had to find a simpler way to explain what I do and still get the “oh, tell me more!” response from the other person, I hope for. It had to be clear enough that a foreign tourist could understand and still convey a depth that would leave things open to take the conversation further.

So after a few more tries, and a lot more explaining in ways that were clearly still too confusing to people outside my target market I came up with the line that worked magic for the rest of the week.

“I teach artists how to make money.”

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October 21, 2009

How to get your work published

To celebrate the release of Designing for the Greater Good, co-authored by Peleg and Jonathan Cleveland of Cleveland Design, Peleg is hosting an L.A. area on Nov. 5th called, “How To Get Your Work Published.” It will show designers how to catapult their design work with the best free PR in the business -- getting international exposure in a high-end design book.

At this event, limited to 40 people, Peleg will talk with Nancy Heinonen, Publications Director of Crescent Hill Books.

During his interview with Nancy, you'll learn:

  • What top editors and designers look for when selecting work for publication

  • How anyone with a paying client can qualify for international exposur

  • The easy steps you can take to streamline the submission process and maximize your chances for success

  • How to develop and submit ideas for your own design book

  • Plus: You'll have the opportunity to ask Peleg and Nancy your own questions in person.

Here are the details:

When: Thursday, November 5, 2009
7:00 pm: register & meet other LA creatives
7:30 pm - 8:30 pm: program followed by Q&A.
Where: The studio of our friends at Lime Twig Group, South Pasadena, CA 
Cost: $18.00- **advance registration required**

Click here to register and save your spot!

April 28, 2009

Was I a Conference Commando?

In Keith Ferazzi’s book, Never Eat Alone (which, ironically, I read a few years back, almost entirely while I was eating lunch, uh, alone), he advises readers to “Be A Conference Commando.” He posits that conferences are not for gaining information and insight, but instead are opportunities to develop relationships. You must be pro-active, not passive. 

In March I made the decision to attend the annual BRITE conference—Branding Innovation and Technology—sponsored by Columbia Business School’s Center on Global Brand Leadership for two main reasons:

  1. Because in 2007 I moved out of NYC to rural central New York state so I needed some mental stimulation, exposure to new ideas, and a good write-off-able excuse to hang out in the city for a few days (not to mention a good, urban, soul-satisfying bagel and lox breakfast).
  2. I’m following the 2009 Grow Your Business Marketing Plan + Calendar (veteran’s version) and felt attending this conference would be an excellent networking component to my marketing checklist—along with all the other strategies we’ve been reading about on this blog: research calls, crafting your online bio, blog creation/posting, etc. 

At the conference, through various addresses, breakout sessions, and a fantastic keynote given by Seth Godin, I gained a better understanding of such current catchphrases as ‘crowdsourcing’ and ‘tribes’; was able to hone my Twitter skills on my iPod Touch (in fact, unlike most other public gatherings, this audience was actually encouraged to dialogue with their devices while the talks were taking place, and after each speaker, the MC would field “tweeted” questions); and was exposed to compelling new technologies—my favorite of which is prezi.com, zooming presentation software.

However, according to Keith’s standards, as a conference attendee, I failed. (Well, maybe a D+). 

Did I sign up to volunteer at the conference in order to gain access to its inner workings? No. 

Did I research the VIPs beforehand and set up opportunities to hobnob with the ones I wanted most to meet in person? Uh, no. 

I did not even really set goals for myself, other than that I would go, meet people, and learn a few things.

However, upon returning home to the farm, I did follow up with each of the people I met, with an email that read:

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