Forget about your day job
When I gave a talk last week for the NY Chapter of the Graphic Artists Guild, I, of course, extolled the virtues of having a clear answer to the question, "What do you do?" (what we usually call the 10-word blurb).
A couple of attendees, who are not yet doing their creative work full time, said they often feel compelled to answer the question truthfully; in other words, to talk about their "day job."
My advice?
You don't have to tell "the whole truth and nothing but the truth." While I am absolutely not advocating deception, I do suggest you carefully construct (with marketing in mind) an answer that will lead you in the direction you're headed, and answer that will help you build your part time or freelance business into something more substantial, if that's what you want.
That's what I love about being in business for myself: I get to decide (almost) everything, including how to answer the question, "What do you do?"
So even if most of your working hours are spent as a legal secretary, when someone asks what you do, talk instead about the work you want to do more of. That's the only way to get the word out about it and to find out if the people you're talking to are clients and prospects.

Thanks, Ilise. Good to know. I'm in the same part-time boat as you are referring to.
Posted by: Melissa Kojima | January 28, 2008 at 11:47 AM
Thank you for this!
Posted by: Nora | January 28, 2008 at 12:14 PM
I love that advice. I use to be a designer as a day job and illustrator at night...and with the question "what do you do?" I'm always tempted to just say "illustrator" but I thought I might be lying.
But of course now that I am an illustrator full-time...I say it loud and proud!
Posted by: Jannie | January 28, 2008 at 01:01 PM
Agreed. After all, are you at a networking meeting to plug your services as a legal secretary? I'd also say that what your day job is really isn't "the truth" about who you are and what you do - often, it's just a way to pay the bills while you pursue other passions. So it makes sense to talk about "what you do" in terms of what you really want to be doing - because that's the truth.
Posted by: Dani Nordin | January 29, 2008 at 01:55 PM
I usually describe what I "really do" first, and then fill in the day job later. I've also been known to describe my day job as my biggest client, which is functionally true if not necessarily totally in line with how, say, the IRS views it.
Posted by: Sonia Simone | January 29, 2008 at 11:42 PM